Our Cheating book to the rescue, and Pleasuring yourself: Compulsive Masturbation and the Case of the Women’s Shoes

Got an email this week that I thought I’d open today’s blog with; from Kammel U. in Ukiah, CA:

Milton and Mia, you are life-savers! After my wife of 27 years up and left me for one of my farm workers (ouch!), I was despondent and lost. I searched the Internet and found your book, the Cheating and Betrayal fixing book (The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Cheating and Betrayal), and it has opened my eyes wide. I have now been able, though your recommendations, to understand how I was responsible for this happening, as I will admit only now that my over-working led her to seek comfort elsewhere. I am no longer blaming Helen or the young man, and though I still ache, I know (sic) longer feel as low as I did, and I have your book and your excellent radio show to thank for it. You made the process seem survivable, that this is a part of life and that I am to learn from it, many thoughts that opened my eyes and made me see that all the suffering can be limited. I could go on, but I simply wanted to make you aware that your work has relevance, and that I am now a life-Long fan!!!”

Now, that is the kinda email I like to get! Forgive me for pounding my chest but I know we are touching lives and making a difference. That book is written for people like Kammel in mind, who may not have the time or experience to reach a level of understanding that Mia and I do, and need short, direct information they can use now, especially when it comes to the arduous and painful task of recovering from betrayal.

For anybody who’s curious or knows someone who could use some powerful advice for overcoming the heartache of betrayal, head over to Amazon and take a look:



Since I’m in a sales-pitch mode, and it is Christmas season, here’s a note on our 2nd book:

The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship is now officially released! Hooray!

Mia and I have been laboring over this booklet for awhile and the results, in our view, are outstanding. Here’s a some promotional text explaining and describing the booklet, available now at all major booksellers and, of course, our website, MiltnMiaShow.com:

‘How often have you heard, “It’s impossible to be truly happy in a relationship, especially with the husband (or wife) that I have”? For Mia and I, however, being happy in a relationship not only IS a possibility but, if you follow the advice in our latest how-to booklet, you’ll not only enjoy increasing degrees of Happiness, but you’ll prevent many of the problems most people eventually experience in their relationships while setting yours on the right course from the very beginning.

The Get Over Yourself! Handbook on Creating Happiness in a Relationship makes the bold claim that Happiness can and should be the standard you want to set, yet we are realistic in our assessment that… “no one can make you happy.” What follows is a carefully laid-out tour of all the elements a couple needs in order to establish and maintain a happy, healthy, loving relationship. Included in the booklet is our Compatibility Checklist of Must Have and Should Be conditions every couple needs to have in place or be working towards.

We make no bones about how easy being in a relationship is, nor do we cloud the reader with long, complex psychological terms; rather, we repeatedly emphasize what we feel is the essence of every successful relationship, Togetherness, and show, in simple, direct and easy-to-read steps, exactly how to achieve it.’



This week’s MiltnMia Show:

Pleasuring yourself: Compulsive Masturbation and the Case of the Women’s Shoes

After Milt introduces the show, their 50th, they again talk about certain topics in their Compatibility Checklist. Milt, “Family Involvement: Set limits on family involvement. When you marry a person with a large family, you may also be marrying their vast family and inviting them all into your lives.” Mia, “When you allow your mother to move in or make your decisions, you’re selling yourself out.” Milt, “Time management: Learn to manage the time you have and not wasting it or shutting each other out with trivial activities.” Mia, “You can get so easily lost in what everybody else is doing, people don’t know how to separate their cell-phones with reality.” Milt, “Overcoming Fear together: Fear is the enemy of Love and the root of all our problems.” Mia, “Fear is like an infectious disease, it’s so easy to be afraid of everything.”

Milt then introduces their show’s theme, compulsive masturbation and indulging in isolated fetishes. Milt, “Am I wrong to be concerned that men are training themselves in non-intimacy by jacking off all the time?” Mia, “It’s often easier just to live a fantasy, you look at a gorgeous woman in porn and wonder, ‘when am I going to get a woman like that?’ You can get lost.” Milt, “In the old days, a man who pleasured himself was known as a malthacos, or malaca, and was never allowed to fight in war because he was considered soft-brained, useless and weak.” Mia, “The problem is when you become a certain age and all you do is masturbate instead of being with a woman. I think a little masturbation is good and safe, but the problem is when you keep doing it and before you know it, you’re not working and you’re daydreaming and fantasizing all day.”



I seem to have lost my enthusiasm for football, after getting my ass kicked by the Seahawks the other day. Yeah, we take on the hapless Raiders today, which should be a blowout, but what then lies in store for us, Seattle, San Diego then Arizona, looks too daunting for us to overcome. Oh, I’ll gladly sing a different tune should things turn out otherwise, but…well, let’s just play the games and see what happens.

Take care. Friends!





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