7 billion versions of reality, and “My husband is a rapist?” Perspectives on Rape, Marriage and De-Sensitized Modern Life

Hmmm, seems some people have very thin -and demented- skins…

Got an email this week from a man I’ll not mention, but the email was full of what we might call ‘vitriol’. I get emails from time to time from oddballs and others who just like to bash people, especially public figures, and I usually cull them for whatever benefit I might accrue; generally, if you look hard enough into even the most bitter and irrational verbal assault, you’ll find something to reflect upon, but in this case, my emailer went off the rails of reality with his accusations.

It’s almost as if he actually was listening to another show rather than ours, and I was ready to dismiss it altogether when, there at the very bottom of his rant, was an actual reference to material from one of our shows. Clearly he had listened -at least to that part of that show- so I decided I would reflect upon his critique.

The show in reference was our CFNM review (Clothed Female Nude Male) and he had taken exception to one of my perhaps more flippant comments; here’s the critique:

You think this (behavior) is fricking weird, Milton? I am telling you now, in 15 years, THIS will be the new norm, women using us men as sex objects and we better be glad they’re still choosing us, because by then there will be hot looking male robots who don’t complain and who do all the work the women want.”

I found that comment, in isolation, to have some weight; hey, it may be our future, one where women have taken the reigns completely from the hands of men and have reduced to mere sex objects and footstools. I’ll buy that possibility, yet in the next sentence, it all came apart:

So, it only took one word from you homo-loving backwoods ass-banger to reveal that you can’t never understand what’s actually going on in reality and that’s because your (sic) so, so sexed up with your homo-loving and Obama worshiping that Satan has clouded you with delusions, but one day, you will suddenly burst on fire and be sent straight to the Hell of your own making!!! And one more thing…”

I’ll hold off, thank you, on the ‘one more thing’ because it was, in truth, 17 paragraphs of disjointed thought that really had no bearing on anything I have ever believed, said or done. What I found fascinating and why I offer it here was how he was able to make such an odd, hateful tangent, which was based on…well, if you heard the show, I did my best to take a neutral, understanding and inquisitive stance, yet he heard something entirely different, which leads me to my point:

There is no one ‘reality’; no, there are 7 billion versions of reality and in some cases, they are completely ‘un-relatable’ to the person standing next to you. It’s as if we really are, as the existentialists project, completely isolated from one another, and certain triggers or prompts, however small, are all that are needed to send one’s mind cascading down a tunnel of illusions and, in this man’s case, demons of its own making.

Am I bothered by him accusing me of being homosexual? Hardly. Was I offended by what he said? Me? Take offense at the rantings of a lunatic? Why, that would make me…a lunatic, right? Now, I am mad, of course, I have a god within who rises frequently in enthusiastic displays of passion, but I am also almost always functional, which disqualifies me from the ranks of the insane, sorry.

At any rate, just thought I’d share a little from the ‘Inbox’ this week…

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This week’s MiltnMia Show:

My husband is a rapist?” Perspectives on Rape, Marriage and De-Sensitized Modern Life

After Milt introduces the show, he mentions today’s theme, Rape, both in general and in the context of relationships. Milt reads some research data, stating that “One third of all American men polled said they would rape if they knew they would get away with it. This suggests rape is fundamental in men, and enjoyable.” Mia, “I don’t know if it’s always rape. Men are soft now, and what used to be viewed as normal sex is now being defined as rape” Milt, “Traditionally, men raped as a tool of war, and sociologists suggest rape is a vestige of when men would simply take a woman and impregnate her, and that instinct is still deeply embedded in most men.” Mia, “But some types of sex which once were normal are now called rape, because of the issue of consent, but do you have to have consent for everything? Men are in a strange position now, because any woman can accuse him of rape. I’m not saying rape is acceptable, I’m just saying we must be careful before we label everything as rape. Many women and men like aggressive sex now.”

Milt, “Are women genetically hard-wired to accept rape?” Mia, “Sometimes women want sex, depending in their hormones and time of the month, and may not want to make love, and women are offering themselves now, even searching for men.” Milt, “There’s a service in LA that, for a fee, will stage a rape for you, and the women are paying good money for this, often with their husband’s watching!” Mia, “We have nothing to do and we watch porn all day and say, ‘One man isn’t enough, I need 3!’ Some women, with perfect lives of no challenges, may need a little rough treatment now, because their lives are so boring! It’s also a function of girls growing up too fast and seeing everyone around them having sex and losing their direction early in their lives. And a lot of bored housewives just want to try new sensations.”

https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/get-over-yourself!-milt-n/id796661531

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Hey, my mother is out of the hospital and back over at rehab, hooray! She’s been drinking fruit juices and eating again and, though she has yet to walk or even stand, she is making improvements. It seems she is not quite ready to die, and my wife, Mia, I will credit with getting her to face this question, as she hit her point-blank the other day and said what none of us could say, “Do you want to die? If so, it’s ok, just let go, but if not, then get your ass to work and work now, no more babying yourself, and drink your juice!”

She’s drinking her juice, indeed…

 

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