Milt’s summer hiatus, and “I only want the positives”: The secret to a lasting relationship without the heartaches, with guest expert Cynthia Brian

Friends, I will be taking the remainder of the summer off from my weekly blog posts. I may post the occasional piece, time permitting, but Mia and I have recently been engaged in an enterprise entirely unrelated to relationship counseling, one that we are finding both wildly fulfilling and quite time-consuming, thus I am simply … Continue reading

“A hero is anyone who has fought in war”, and a Memorial Day Special: Demetrius Toteras, Korea and the 1st Persian Gulf War

I’ve said this before but I’m generally not a fan of holidays and the pressure to get out and spend, our patriotic duty it would seem. Oh, I love Christmas and New Years and always will, but most of the others strike me as contrived (Valentine’s, MLK, Chavez, President’s Day…) and without great meaning. I’ll … Continue reading

The Truth versus Truth-ing, and A little bit on the side: Having an affair to liven up your marriage

I made my annual visit this last Wednesday night to a private men’s seminar up in Grass Valley, CA. The venue has changed, and the sponsor this year was new to me, but I was heartened to see quite a number of men I have gotten to know over the years there in attendance. I … Continue reading

The blessing and curse of Motherhood, and Using Her for Sex: What Love Isn’t, with guest experts, Merry and Burl Hall

Happy Mother’s Day, everyone! I will be wishing my wife and the mother of my boys, Mia, a more personal Mother’s Day later this evening, but here, I would like to pause for a moment and reflect on the meaning of this day and the general state of Mothering across the planet. Mother’s Day should … Continue reading

MiltnMia are back from an exhausting trip, and man-boobs, irritability and impotence: Manopause and testosterone treatment, along with guest expert, Dawn Westmorelend

Mia and I are back from a rather exhausting trip to South America. While we were able to enjoy ourselves, it was a very difficult trip for me physically, and even more rough trip for her emotionally. Mia’s mother had a massive stroke, paralyzing her entire left side. Heath care in South America is not … Continue reading

Milt explains his ‘pro-woman, anti-feminist’ views, and Being who you are: Bullying, cowardice and accepting your transgender child

Interesting email this week, from Janice: “Milt and Mia, I love your show and I love your blog!! I was reading back about a year ago’s blogs and you were saying in that one (?) that the hole (sic) idea of men or women being superior is BS and that we should be learning to … Continue reading

Our Cheating book to the rescue, and Pleasuring yourself: Compulsive Masturbation and the Case of the Women’s Shoes

Got an email this week that I thought I’d open today’s blog with; from Kammel U. in Ukiah, CA: “Milton and Mia, you are life-savers! After my wife of 27 years up and left me for one of my farm workers (ouch!), I was despondent and lost. I searched the Internet and found your book, … Continue reading

Burning Man considerations, wife-sharing in ancient Sparta, and A#s is the new vagina? The Physical and Meta-Physical Consequences of Anal Sex

Mia and I are leaving later today for a couple weeks out in the Nevada Desert, including a short stay at the annual art installation cum alternative expo, Burning Man, out near Gerlach. I’ve been irregularly visiting since the first events in ’89/90, when they were loosely organized and sparsely attended. Burning Man has reached … Continue reading

Stealing secrets from Pythagoras, learning to enjoy the struggle of Love, and Relationship Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (ROCD): serious illness, or bullsh#t psycho-babble?

The Pythagoreans are famous for believing the universe to be composed of measurable digits, at whose essence is Tone, which is held together and moves rhythmically. In effect, Rhythm runs the universe, though today’s spiritualists and New Age synthesizers have yet to expand their understanding and are still focused on what they call ‘vibrations’ which … Continue reading

Milt refuses to talk more about V. Golddigliano, 7 Sages: Thales, and a special MiltnMia Show, Interviews with Toteras

Hello everyone, are you ready to dive into even more of the Donald Sterling/V. Golddigliano controversy? No? Good, neither am I! Mia and I did a couple shows on the sordid affair and just thinking about it now makes me want to take a shower! Seriously, we’ve said our piece and are leaving it at … Continue reading